You want to smoke your first cigar. Maybe it’s a wedding thing, celebration, or you’ve just been curious. Problem is, walking into a cigar shop feels like everyone’s speaking another language.
Been there myself. First time buying cigars, I nodded along while the guy behind the counter threw around words like “ring gauge” and “ligero.” Walked out with something way too strong. Spent the next hour regretting my life choices.
We have all been there in the beginning, Let’s make sure that doesn’t happen to you.
What Makes a Good Cigar Anyway?
Before getting into technique, you need to know what you’re actually buying. Premium handmade cigars have three main parts.
The filler tobacco sits in the middle – basically the engine. Long filler means whole leaves rolled together. Burns even, tastes better. Short filler? That’s chopped scraps. Usually found in cheap cigars that taste harsh and burn like shit.
The binder leaf wraps around the filler. Holds everything together, adds some flavor. Think of it like the foundation.
Then there’s the wrapper. This single outer leaf? It accounts for around 60% of what you taste. Connecticut wrapper gives smooth, creamy notes. Maduro brings chocolate and coffee with sweetness. The wrapper makes or breaks everything.
Choosing Cigars When You’re Starting Out
Here’s what nobody mentions – starting with the wrong cigar ruins it. I’ve seen grown men turn green after smoking something too powerful on an empty stomach. Not pretty.
Start mild. Look for Connecticut Shade wrappers or anything labeled “mild to medium.” Most shops carry options like Macanudo, Arturo Fuente, Montecristo White. These won’t knock you sideways with nicotine. Check out our guide on the best 5 cigars for beginners to try for specific recommendations.
Size matters, but probably not how you think. Skip those giant Churchill cigars for now. A Robusto – about 5 inches long, 50 ring gauge – gives you 45 minutes to an hour. Perfect sweet spot when you’re learning. Enough time to taste the cigar without committing two hours to something you might hate. Wondering about sizes? Read Robusto vs Toro vs Churchill vs Corona to understand which fits your situation.
Ring gauge is the diameter. Measured in 64ths of an inch. So 50 ring gauge means 50/64ths of an inch thick. Bigger isn’t better – just more tobacco, longer smoking time.
Tell the tobacconist you’re new. Seriously. Good shops want return customers, not people who leave dizzy and never come back. Be honest about experience level.
Cutting a Cigar the Right Way
Mess this up and your cigar smokes like garbage regardless of price.
Three cutter options exist:
Guillotine cutters – most common. Straightforward. Put the cap end in, make one quick cut. Remove about 1/8 inch where the cap meets the body. One smooth motion. Don’t saw back and forth.
V-cutters carve out a wedge. Work great on torpedo shapes, prevent wrapper cracking. Smoke concentrates through that V-notch. Some people love it.
Punch cutters pop out a small circle from the cap. Easy to carry, almost impossible to screw up. Downside? Can get clogged with tar on longer smokes.
Whatever happens, don’t bite the end off like some old Western movie. You’ll shred the wrapper and the whole thing unravels while you’re smoking.
Lighting Your Cigar Properly
Use butane torch lighters or wooden matches. With matches, let the sulfur burn off first – couple seconds – before bringing flame near your cigar.
Here’s the technique:
Hold your cigar at an angle about an inch above flame. Rotate slowly, toasting the foot (the end you light) until you see even orange glow forming. Takes 20-30 seconds. Patience pays off.
Once the foot looks evenly toasted, put cigar in your mouth. Take gentle puffs while rotating over the flame. You’re drawing flame up into tobacco. Keep rotating. Don’t stop rotating. Uneven light means uneven burn for the rest of your smoke.
You know it’s ready when you’ve got even cherry glowing across the entire foot.
How to Actually Smoke a Cigar
This is where beginners mess up: don’t inhale cigar smoke into your lungs. Cigars aren’t cigarettes. Nicotine absorbs through your mouth and nose, not lungs.
Draw smoke into your mouth. Let it sit there a second. Gently push it back out. Some people exhale through the nose – called retrohaling – to catch more flavors. Try it in small amounts. Too much burns.
Take slow draws every 30-60 seconds. That’s it. Puffing away like a chimney? You’re overheating tobacco and creating bitter, harsh smoke. Cigar should feel slightly warm to touch. Not hot.
Don’t tap ash constantly. Let it build to about an inch before it falls naturally. Good cigars hold ash like champs – actually a quality sign. Ash also regulates temperature, keeps smoke cooler and smoother.
Body, Strength, and Flavor – What’s the Difference?
This confuses everyone initially because terminology is backwards.
Body refers to how heavy or light smoke feels. Full-bodied cigars produce thick, rich smoke coating your mouth. Light-bodied cigars feel delicate and airy. Comes from the tobacco blend itself. Want to really understand this? We break it down in understanding body vs strength in cigars.
Strength is purely nicotine content. Strong cigar delivers head buzz. Mild cigar barely affects you. Strength and body don’t always match – you can have full-bodied cigar with mild strength.
Flavor is completely separate. These are actual taste notes: leather, cedar, pepper, chocolate, coffee, cream, nuts, earth, grass, dozens more. Mild cigar can have incredibly complex flavors. Strong cigar might taste one-dimensional.
For beginners: mild to medium body + mild strength = happy first experience. Explore flavors without nicotine overload.
Storing Cigars Properly
Cigars are basically live products. Without proper storage, they dry out, crack, taste terrible within weeks.
Magic numbers: 65-70% humidity and 65-70°F temperature.
Get a humidor if you plan keeping cigars around. Even cheap $40 desktop humidor beats leaving them in a drawer. Spanish cedar lining and humidification system maintain right environment.
Boveda packs are foolproof humidity control. Two-way packs automatically regulate humidity. Drop them in your humidor, replace every 2-3 months, done. No checking hygrometers or worrying about mold. We cover everything in our complete beginner’s guide to humidity control for cigar humidors.
Never store cigars in refrigerators. Dry air destroys them in days. Keep away from sunlight and strong smells – wrappers absorb odors like crazy.
The cellophane debate: leaving cigars in cello inside humidor is totally fine. Permeable enough for humidity while protecting from handling damage.
Mistakes That Kill Your Experience
Smoking too fast – number one beginner killer. Destroying flavors you paid for and making yourself sick with nicotine. If cigar feels hot to touch, slow down.
Leaving band on too long – wait until you’ve smoked 10-15 minutes before removing. Heat loosens adhesive. Twist gently, don’t pull.
Wrong drink pairings clash horribly. Coffee works with most cigars. Bourbon complements spice and sweetness. Avoid citrus or sour drinks – they fight tobacco flavors. Water cleanses palate between puffs. Looking for perfect pairing? Check how to pair cigars with coffee or learn why cigars and spirits work together according to your brain.
Relighting old cigars – if your cigar’s been out couple hours, throw it away. Stale smoke absorbed into tobacco tastes awful no matter what.
Actual Cigars Worth trying for Beginners
Want names? Here’s what actually works:
Stallone Palomino Connecticut Robusto – slightly sweeter cigar with incredibly good balance. Works beautifully as luxurious everyday smoke. Lighter complexity, perfect for beginners.
Perdomo 10th Anniversary Connecticut Robusto – not particularly complex but well-balanced flavors. Medium body on the border of mild. Great value for money. You get a lot of cigar here.
Camacho Connecticut Robusto – smooth flavors with good balance. Mild body makes it suitable for new and experienced aficionados. Lighter complexity, perfect for learning.
AJ Fernandez San Lotano Requiem Connecticut Robusto – good balance with interesting flavors in the last third. Light smoke with body that suits most people from beginners to slightly more experienced. Possibly a little underpriced.
Perdomo Fresco Sungrown Robusto – incredibly good everyday cigar with lighter complexity. Mild body means most people can enjoy it. Cheap compared to what you get.
Stay away from full-bodied cigars until you’ve got some experience.
When and Where to Smoke
Context matters more than people realize.
Never smoke on empty stomach. Eat a real meal first, especially with medium or stronger cigars. Nicotine on empty stomach equals feeling like garbage.
Give yourself time. Don’t light Robusto when you need to leave in 20 minutes. Need 45-60 minutes minimum. Rushing kills it.
Find comfortable spot where you can relax without distractions. First few cigars deserve focus. Quiet patio, cigar lounge, anywhere you can sit and pay attention to what you’re tasting.
Weather affects experience. Windy days make lighting and keeping cigars lit harder. Extreme cold affects flavors. Mild weather with low wind is ideal.
Don’t Be That Guy – Basic Etiquette
Don’t blow smoke in people’s faces. Seems obvious but you’d be surprised.
Use ashtrays. Don’t ash on someone’s property without asking. Bring portable ashtray if smoking outdoors somewhere public.
Respect non-smoking areas completely. Our hobby depends on not being assholes about where we smoke.
Don’t dip or wet cigar head with your mouth before cutting. Accomplishes nothing and makes you look ridiculous.
Never stub out a cigar in ashtray like a cigarette. Just set it down, let it go out naturally. Stubbing creates awful smells.
Building Your Palate Takes Time
First cigar probably won’t blow your mind with complex flavors. That’s normal. Developing palate takes time and deliberate practice.
Keep notes on what you smoke. Simple stuff: brand, wrapper type, what you tasted, whether you liked it. Patterns emerge showing what styles click.
Try different wrapper types systematically. Smoke Connecticut one week, Habano next, then Maduro. Direct comparison teaches more than random sampling. Curious about wrappers? Learn the key differences between Maduro vs Connecticut wrappers to understand what you’re tasting.
Join local cigar lounge or find online community. People love talking cigars and sharing recommendations. Discover stuff you’d never find browsing alone.
Don’t rush into expensive cigars. Some $25 sticks are incredible, others are overhyped nonsense. Learn what you like with $8-12 cigars before dropping serious money.
Your Journey Starts Now
Every cigar smoker started exactly where you are. Confused, uncertain, probably intimidated by all the terminology and options.
Truth is: best cigar is the one you enjoy. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Some people love Nicaragua powerhouses. Others prefer mild Connecticut morning smokes. Your palate is yours.
Start with quality mild cigars from reputable brands. Learn proper cutting and lighting. Take your time. Don’t inhale. Keep cigars properly humidified.
Most importantly? Relax and enjoy the ritual. Cigars force you to slow down in a world that won’t stop rushing. That’s half the appeal.
Ready to explore premium handmade cigars? Browse our cigar reviews to find what fits your taste, or check out our top-rated cigars and discover what you’ve been missing.
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